Chapter 14
ALL THINGS ARE FULL OF LABOUR
(From early June 1966 until the 1st week of
January 1967)
Mrs.
Taylor agreed to let me again rent the same room in her house when I returned
to Auburn in September. But I think I moved all my things out of that room for
her to use it for her guests during the summer. So back to Vernon I go in my 55
Chevy, unload my college things into my room in Daddy’s house, again lodge at
Daddy’s place the days I am in Vernon, and again start roofing for Mr.
Mars.
Between
last September (when I left the roofing job at Ft. Walton Beach) and now (June
1966) Mr. Mars and Mr. Esker had bought a much larger spraying machine (than
the paint sprayer) to spray the black gum coating onto roofs. They had also bought
a new pickup truck and installed the machine (gasoline engine and compressor)
in the front of the truck bed. Now they were much better equipped to do roofing
with spraying equipment for the black gum coating and the separate,
smaller spraying unit for the aluminum paint. This saved many man-hours
of labor. I liked this improvement in the working methods.
Regrettably,
Mr. Esker’s health had been failing and now he is no longer able to work. I
think by now (June) the doctors have told him that he has cancer.
From
his house in Birmingham, Mr. Mars called me at Daddy’s. “I want you to drive to
my house in Birmingham for us to work roofs in this area.” I wrote down the
directions he gave me to his house, packed work clothes for a week or so and
drove to Birmingham arriving there on US Hwy 78. Interstate highways had not
yet been constructed thru Birmingham proper. Following Mr. Mars’ directions,
when I reached 1st Avenue North, I turned northeast onto it, went to
East Lake, turned as he had instructed me to go on to Huffman, looked for
Orlando Circle where he lived, turned onto it, looked for and found his house
number. I was most relieved to have arrived because that was the 1st
time for me to do such navigating in such a large city.
January
1965 when I dropped my sister off at a doctor’s office in Birmingham, that
place was close to the main highway and not so difficult to find. This June day
I arrive at Mr. Mars’ house, starts a period of time when this barefoot, horse
plow, farm boy will learn much about navigating in large cities. I
need that lesson. (Truly the Lord knows just what we need, thank
God!) By the way, I had no idea that in 10 years, I would be finding my way
alone around in Tokyo, Japan (at one time said to be the most populous city in
the world).
Mr.
Mars told me to park my car in his backyard. I put my bag of work clothes into
the truck. He left in his car and I followed him driving the truck to a roofing
job site and we went to work that day.
No
longer am I roofing close enough to Vernon to sleep at Daddy’s house. Mr. Mars
would get me a motel room to lodge in and he would drive home to his house the
few times we were close enough for him to commute to the roofing site from his
house. But much of the time, we were too far for him to drive home each day. At
those times we both lodged together in one motel room, eating 3 daily meals in cafés
and restaurants. He paid all that expense and paid me my wages.
Such
lodging was most pleasant to me (high class for this country boy). After
getting plenty dirty doing roofing work all day, I especially liked taking a
nice long hot shower in the motel room, then eating out. Most refreshing!
The limited bathing facilities at Daddy’s house were not so refreshing to come
home to after hot, dirty roofing.
Now, constantly moving about becomes
somewhat of an exciting adventure for me. I see various places
and meet various human souls for the 1st time. I enjoy that! We do roofs
in the city of Anniston and then several in the Birmingham area. For most jobs,
Mr. Mars would look for 1 to 3 transient workers in the area of the job and
hire them. I have now become the straw boss. Mr. Mars and I would instruct
the new temporary workers on how to do the work. I begin to often supervise
them as I work hard right alongside them.
This
pattern develops. Often we work 6 days a week, sometimes quitting a little
early on Saturdays. Mr. Mars usually drives his car to each work location to
have use of it while I use the truck and its equipment as I work the roofing
crew. Driving the truck, I would follow him in his car back to his house on
Saturday afternoon, then get into my car and drive to Vernon, arriving as late
as 8 PM or so.
Often
I stopped at the Laundromat in Vernon to wash and dry my extremely dirty work
clothes and then went on to Daddy’s house, getting to bed late and plenty
tired. I would attend Daddy’s church Sunday morning and night, eat lunch with
my family at his house, and often lie in the porch swing Sunday afternoon,
trying to recover from much fatigue.
I
would leave from Daddy’s about 5 AM Monday, headed for Birmingham. I usually
stopped to eat breakfast at a roadside café in Jasper, and then on to Mr. Mars’
house. I would park my car in Mr. Mars’ backyard, get into the truck and follow
his car to our present job site. It was an adventure, going to many places and
meeting various people. It was also a long fatiguing week. Thank God
for the strength and vitality of youth.
Previously,
I told you of using my census-taking paycheck to finance my 1st term
at Auburn. When I returned to Vernon after that 1st winter quarter
for spring break, I went to the bank and asked for a $200 loan for college. Mr.
Bragg told me to have Daddy sign with me and then I got the loan. I repaid that
loan as I worked last summer, and then saved money for college. But I used that
entire savings during the fall term.
So
after Christmas, I went to the bank in Millport and got a $200 loan to be
repaid by mid-July (likely). Then on spring break, I got a $200 loan from the
bank in Vernon to finance my spring term this year (likely to be repaid by mid-August).
After repaying both loans on time this summer, I saw I would not have enough
money for this fall quarter at Auburn U. I did not want to start borrowing
money from the bank again this early in the year (September, fall quarter).
Each
summer (or period) that I worked for Mr. Mars, there were a good number of days
when he had no work for me. Also, I could not work on rainy days. Thus no pay
for such days. It made it hard to save enough for college. That
greatly disappointed me at the time. I desperately wanted to get
on with college. What I did not understand was that the Lord (in His Perfect Way) was
putting delays in my college education to keep me from the deadly battlefields
in Viet Nam.
Late
this summer, Mr. Mars is getting a lot of roofing jobs in Tuskegee near Auburn,
so I work in Tuskegee several different weeks. We stay in a quaint old hotel in
downtown Tuskegee. I enjoy lodging in that atmosphere. The owner is friendly
and talks with us much. I learn that his daughter is one of the girls I serve
in the dining hall at Auburn U. I know her well, a quite stunning young lady.
On
the jobs in Tuskegee, I often end up supervising a work crew of up to 5 other
men. They were all older than I. It was a valuable maturing experience for me
to have a small work crew under my supervision, supervising men much older than
I.
Shortly
before the fall quarter starts at Auburn U., I drive to the campus from nearby
Tuskegee, go to the Navy ROTC office and tell the Marine major that I am not
financially able to attend college this fall and thus will have to drop out of
Navy ROTC now. (I am very fatalistic in my thinking. I thought they
would definitely kick me out of Navy ROTC because I am missing so many
quarters of school.)
To
make a short story shorter, the major soon told me that we all could work
together with these extenuating circumstances and that I may continue in Navy
ROTC when I come back in Winter Quarter, January 1967. They desperately
need many young Marine officers as cannon fodder in Viet Nam. Thank God
this additional delay in my university studies helps delay my progression
toward becoming a battle-ready Marine and helps to prevent me from going to
Viet Nam. Thank Thee, Lord Jesus!
I go
to the dining hall and tell them I’ll be absent for the fall term, but sure
would like a job when I come back for winter term. They assured me that I would
step right into my job in January. (Young Soul, being a good worker will do
much for you!) I also stop by Mrs. Taylor’s house to break the regretful
news that I won’t be in school this fall. She symphases with me, and makes me
so happy by telling me she will hold my room for me till I come in January.
Thank God for this kind grandmother.
Mr.
Esker dies from cancer along about early September. The Mars family of 3 drives
from Birmingham to attend the funeral at Vernon. When the autumn quarter starts
at Auburn in late September, Mr. and Mrs. Mars’ daughter starts there as a
freshman student. But I keep roofing.
Again,
that hollow feeling wells up in my heart. I want to be in school in the
fall. I felt desperate not being on campus. I thought on the fact that I
greatly enjoyed the fall term last year but would miss this one. Will I ever
actually graduate from the university? My heart ached as I watched Miss Mars
leave home for Auburn U. for the fall quarter, but I daily I continue to head
out in the truck to do dirty roofing work instead. It made me feel low.
Soon
after their daughter left for Auburn, early one Monday morning I drove from
Daddy’s house to the Mars’ home. When I arrived, Mrs. Mars had already gone to
her office job for the day. Mr. Mars was there alone. He had no roofing work
that day, so together he and I did a thorough job of cleaning all the roofing
equipment and putting all the tools in good order in the truck bed. As we did
that work in his backyard, he spoke up.
“Tonight,
you will sleep in that bedroom in there,” he remarked to me motioning toward
their guest bedroom. Their nest emptied out when their daughter left for
college. (Likely it helped their loneliness a little to have me there, tho they
never spoke of such. They were happy folks.) After 5 PM, Mrs. Mars comes home
from work and cooks our supper. After we sup together, we 3 sit before the TV
an hour or more. Then I bed down in their guest bedroom for the first of many
times, thank God!
Thus
wise the Mars family “adopts” me, and later clearly tells me I’m their adopted
son. That
made me happy! Mr. Mars has 3 grown sons from a previous marriage. All 3
sons are now married and in their own homes. His present wife is a fine
Christian lady. Later I will attend Huffman Baptist Church sometimes with them.
It’s a most rich life with the Mars family. From that 1st
night I slept in their house, any time our work is close enough to commute from
his house, I no longer stay in a motel room. I stay in their house as a son and
eat Mrs. Mars’ breakfast and supper as a family member. It was truly a blessing!
Around
October, we did some roofing in eastern Tennessee where Mr. Mars had previously
lived for many years. The lovely mountains and valleys there fascinated me and
I enjoyed the adventure of “exploring” that area for the 1st time.
One morning as we 2 were about to leave Mr. Mars’ house to work in southeastern
Tennessee, he instructed me like this. “I will not take my car this time. I’ll
drive the truck and you’ll ride with me. I bought a car for a man who lives
where we are going, trying to help the poor man. He is not making any car
payments as he is supposed to be doing. Looks like I’ll have to repossess the
car. If so, I will drive it back to Birmingham and you’ll drive the truck back.”
So
we went in the truck and did a few days of roofing work. Then one evening about
7 or 8 PM, we drove to the man’s house. We purposely went late to be sure to
catch him at home. (That poor man had no phone. So, Mr. Mars couldn’t call him
before hand.) But no one was at home when we arrived. Mr. Mars inquired with a
neighbor. “This time of night, they should come back any time now.” Almost
immediately the whole family drove up in Mr. Mars’ 1962 light tan Ford Falcon,
man, wife, and about 4 small children. Mr. Mars had known them many years. They
all exchanged joyful greetings. Mr. Mars was such a kind gentleman, greeting
each child also and talking some with both man and wife. Both the man and wife
were meek, jolly, poor mountain folks.
Soon
Mr. Mars had to bring up his distasteful business matter. That gentleman was
most kind and gentle to this poor family. “Well, what are you going to do about
the car? You have had it for several months now and haven’t paid anything on
it.”
The
man silently hung his head in a shamed and embarrassed manner that appeared
quite genuine. I do not know if he had a paying job at the time. I think he had
trouble keeping a job and managing money and such. I felt sorry for him and his
family. They were a young couple with 4 small children. I wondered how many
more babies would arrive in this poor house during the wife’s childbearing
years.
Generous
Mr. Mars had turned this car over to them with no money down, so the family
would have some transportation, asking the man to make small, periodical payments,
as he was able. He had made none. After some strained silence, Mr. Mars gently
broke the sad news to the couple. “Well, I’m going to take the car to my house
and let it set there a while. See if you can get financially able to buy it.
And if you do so, you let me know.” The man nodded his head sadly.
Just
a few minutes ago, that car had roared home to that poor simple house, stuffed
full of its family of six souls, happily carrying on together inside the car as
simple people can naturally do, and as was their habit. But arriving home this
night, things suddenly change for them. It’s a heartbreaking sight to me to see
them remove all their belongings from the car (children’s small toys and such)
and suddenly be left with no family transportation.
The
next day I drove the truck back to Birmingham, following Mr. Mars driving that
little tan Falcon. He and I cleaned it up together in his back yard, washing
the outside and cleaning the interior. What a job that cleaning was, as
both inside and out, the car was filthy, the kid’s grime on much
of the interior. My heart ached for that poor family of 6, now without a
vehicle.
Along
about now, Miss Mars comes home to Birmingham from Auburn for the weekend. I am
staying the night there when she arrives Friday evening, full of talk of her
new university life, at my university. That made me homesick for campus life at Auburn. I so much wanted to be in that fun university life also.
I am
putting a lot of miles on my 55 Chevy and driving it a little faster on these
long, weekly commutes between Vernon and B’ham than its 6-cylinder engine was
made to endure. It began burning oil, causing me to wonder how much longer the
engine would last. Jimmy (the barber in Vernon) has his eye on my 55 Bel Air
Chevy. His hobby is cars and he likes that popular model. For some months now,
Jimmy urges me to sell it to him when he sees me in Vernon. He is quick to tell
me that no doubt its engine is about worn out because it’s burning oil. One
time in Vernon, he shows me a white 1957 Chevy station wagon with V8 engine. He
owns it. He said he would trade it to me, an even deal for my
car, with no exchange of money. Hesitantly, I made the deal. I was mistaken to
do so.
Driving
that car to Birmingham and back to Vernon weekly, the power of that V8 engine
was nice to have. But about the 3rd time I was driving to Mr. Mars’
house in it, with a pop of the engine this car quit on me in the edge of
Birmingham. I was able to coast over onto the shoulder of busy US Hwy 78, walk
to the closest pay phone and call Mr. Mars. He came in the truck with a stout
rope and towed me to a car repair shop and junkyard he knew of in North
Birmingham. The shop owner took a quick glance at the engine. “The starter fell
off. Will likely need a new starter.” I asked him to please make the necessary
repairs and rode on in the truck with Mr. Mars to his house.
Soon
after we arrive at Mr. Mars’ house, the shop owner calls. “The car slung a
piston rod thru the engine wall right behind the starter. That’s what knocked
the starter off. This engine is ruined.” I told him I wanted to junk the car.
He said he would give me $50 for it. I said I would stop by for that payment in
a week or so. I did so. And in that roundabout way, I got $50 for my popular
model 55 Bel Air Chevy that Jimmy would have gladly paid me $200 or so to buy
it for cash money. Too bad!
That
car’s engine blew up on me 3 or 4 weeks after Mr. Mars repossessed that 1962
Ford Falcon. “Richard, that man up in Tennessee will never buy this car. If you
want this one, I’ll sell it to you for $400 and you can make payments to me
when you are able.” Likely that was in early December 1966. I thanked him and
accepted his most generous deal. The car stayed registered in Mr. Mars’ name. I
took it as my own to use and a few days later stopped by the junkyard that took
my car and received his $50 payment for my piece of junk.
This
little Falcon was well made and in good condition. I liked its simplicity and
easy handling. I was most thankful for it, much newer than any vehicle I
had owned to date. I had no part in Mr. Mars repossessing it. He had been most
lenient with that man. It hurt me to see that poor family lose this car. But
the truth is that God timed all this perfectly to provide a car most
suited to me thru a friend who generously (like a father) told me to make
payments when I could. Thank Thee, Precious Lord. Please
enable me to pay for the car and not be like the previous owner.
This
summer, Mr. Mars had given me a Birmingham city street and highway map.
I studied it to learn how to get around in that largest Alabama city. Mr. Mars
now shows me that (as I come from and go back to Vernon) the car junkyard is on
a less crowded shortcut to his house thru North B’ham. So I begin
using that shortcut to and from Vernon, saving time by avoiding driving busy 1st
Avenue North thru downtown.
This
year we work on roofs at Birmingham Southern College. There we hire a crane a
short time. The crane operator’s assistant was a simple man. “If I had it to do
over again, I would be a preacher. They only have to work a short time, a few
hours 1 day a week, and it is such easy work and good pay.” Those were his
remarks one day as he mused aloud on the job. My fellow preachers, likely you
are amused at his honest and sincere opinion of your job, just as I was. Ha.
Ha.
We
did a little work on the roof of the house of the Commanding General of the Air
National Guard Unit located at the Birmingham Airport. I think he was a one
star general. I met him, his wife and college student son at their home
as I worked on their roof. I greatly
enjoyed such new encounters, meeting various souls in various walks of life journeying
to their eternal abode.
One
day a long-standing friend of Mr. Mars stopped by our roofing site in the
Birmingham area and we 3 had lunch together in a restaurant. At lunch, that man
ate an apple and raw sunflower seeds he had brought with him. He talked about
his healthy eating habits and “Prevention” magazine. That is my 1st
memory of meeting someone who purposely ate like that for health reasons. The “impression”
lodged firmly in my mind and “bent” me in that direction. Soon I start reading “Prevention”
from time to time and eating more “healthy” to a slight degree. Growing up, our
poor family simply ate what food we had available. At times it was scarce with
little variety. But thankfully it was basically healthy veggies, fruits, dairy
and poultry products, and meat we grew on our own farm.
Off
and on during this autumn, regrettably there were a number of days Mr. Mars had
no work for me. (I desired to be earning money for college.) I spent those days
at Daddy’s house. Our neighbor, Check Wheeler, grew sorghum cane this year to
make delicious sorghum syrup. He asked me to help him harvest the cane, which
was quite a job. So I did, and Check paid me just a little. Still it was
pleasant being out in the field with him, talking and working together out in
God’s nature no more than half a mile from Daddy’s house. Of course, I lodged
at Daddy’s during such times, spending several autumn days in my boyhood home
with family.
Mr.
Mars took any job available that we were capable of doing, desirous to obtain
all the work he could. A quite prominent Jewish family who ran a family
clothing store many years in downtown Birmingham hired us to renovate the
interior of the old building’s full size attic under the store building’s flat
roof. They used the spacious attic for storage and such. I immensely enjoyed this
job!
Much
of the time, I worked alone up in that quaint old attic (among manikins
and such stored up there), nailing a new wood floor into the attic, doing some
lumber repairs to the walls, and such renovating of their rustic old attic. It
must have been early December and a chilly rain fell much of the 4 or 5 days I
worked in that attic.
I
would drive there from the Mars’ house each morning, climb up a stairs inside
the store into the dark attic, switch on naked light bulbs in the attic
ceiling, and go at it nailing floor boards in the quaint old attic atmosphere, warm,
dry and “cozy-like”, this job not affected by the chilly rain falling outside.
It was a great relief to do this inside
work! I felt as snug as a bug in a rug.
I
was working with lumber (so natural) instead of sticky black gum. This particular job was a thrilling
adventure. It was interesting being around that family of Jews. Mr. Mars and
the owner explained the job to me, showed me what to do and then I worked alone
much, up in that store attic. Each evening, I would drive back to the Mars
house in Huffman, get a good hot shower, eat Mrs. Mars’ delicious supper
together with that couple and sit before the TV a while with them relaxing in
cheerful conversation. I immensely enjoyed those few days working in that
attic.
This
period of almost 7 months straight in 1966 (working in many places for Mr. Mars
and beginning to live in his house part-time) was a varied and exciting
adventure for me. The various jobs and business I was involved in broadened my
horizon greatly, giving me experience in the business world, even as a young
straw boss of a work crew. When abiding with the Mars household, we talked and
laughed together at the meal table and in the living room. I enjoyed that
interacting much better than the prevailing stone silence that
confronted me many years as I grew up in my boyhood home.
Christmas
season arrives and I spend the holiday season mostly in the Vernon area and go
on back to Auburn University the 1st week in January. From the time
I first met Mr. Mars, he was a great asset in my life. From early June this
year (1966) to the end of this year, I spent much time with Mr. Mars during
those 7 months. Mr. Mars was a talker; tho he seldom talked too much, nor was
his talk vain.
During
these 7 months, he and I spent many hours traveling together in the same
vehicle (an ideal time to chat). I enjoyed listening to him tell of his earlier
life, supervising tough (and mean) coal miners in eastern Tennessee, of working
a stone quarry there cutting out pretty building stone, and of having his own
trucking company. (Of course, he didn’t do all these at the same time.)
Mr.
Mars was born in 1908, I think. He lived in eastern Tennessee as a young man
before WWII where those coal miners and stone quarry workers were a tough breed
of mountain men, each of them packing a pistol on their person. I heard lively,
true stories of frontier style violence. Seven months with Mr. Mars this year,
traveling to various places, becoming his “adopted” son, staying in his home
and such were a great blessing to me. I believe God gave me the exact
experiences I needed at that time in my young life.
I
thank God for giving me a Daddy who was a most upright, hardworking Christian
man. However, his silence toward me formed a void in my heart. I
believe that is the reason that God gave me Mr. Mars at this formative time as
I am reaching adulthood. Mr. Mars was somewhat like a father, and he talked
much to me. God also gave me 2 of the greatest Navy Lieutenants ever, who
instructed me at the start of my Navy ROTC training at Auburn, Lt. France and
Lt. Coates. Each of these 3 men was a most
needed, important, and timely help to me, a big “plus” factor in my life as I am maturing into an adult.
Thank
Thee, My Precious Lord Jesus, for fulfilling my every need in Thy Perfect
Way. Thank Thee for the latter 7 months of 1966 being full of labor
with much valuable life experience, and rich in blessings and joy of the heart.